In Response to My 13 Year-Old Daughter’s Letter

/ stephanielharper
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Cameren at age 4, taken Mother’s Day 2005

In Response to My 13 Year-Old Daughter’s Letter

Apologize? For regretting your birth?

That the white dove of sarcasm
has officially fledged from your belly
alit on the canopy     & uncaged its crystal trill
comes to me as no surprise

But neither of us could have foreseen the power
your brooding would conceive of pencil & ire
before the moment you spat out   crumpled     & hand delivered
my saltwater baptism

Your own tears     now dried for hours     blaze for me
from the gold heart in your gray-green eyes
willing my belief that you truly didn’t realize
I’ve been there your whole life

At sundown     I’m the one always stumbling through the wood
like some sort of village idiot     brandishing my dim lantern
at the giant pines     as if I might catch them in the act
of uprooting themselves     & slinking away

Though you flit by & vanish into the trees
in a flash I can barely make out as a memory
your trace among the cedars & silvertips remains as innate in me
as the wolf’s way to her newborn cub’s whimper

Two months early
yet already ripe for the triumph
& pain only the fiercest have dared to carry in one body
you were born to fly from me—

& so     how could I ever be sorry
to know of finding you over & over again?

STEPHANIE L. HARPER

Thank you to editor Eli T. Mond for giving this piece a home in the December 2017 edition of The Ibis Head Review.

“In Response to My 13 Year-Old Daughter’s Letter” is included in my debut poetry chapbook, This Being Done, which is available for order NOW from Finishing Line Press!

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16 thoughts on “In Response to My 13 Year-Old Daughter’s Letter”

    • Thanks, Jazz. Yes, somehow, I was reminded of Nietzsche’s parable, in which the toller Mensch (crazy man) enters the village square, lantern in hand, calling out, “Ich suche Gott (I’m looking for God).” I agree that motherhood can make us crazy with god-knowledge — of having found everything we ever sought and infinitely more, no (apprehensive, consternating, exquisite) moment of which we would trade for any other.

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      • Yeah, weird stuff like that has happened to me – anything italicized in a poem somehow doesn’t appear that way pasted into wordpress. Anyway, a small thing. Love “two months early/yet already ripe for the triumph” too!

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